Our relationship with God
Is determined by our relationship with our parents.
Any dysfunction and problem in our relationship with our parents affects our relationship with God.
If we grew up not having a perfect relationship with our parents, then we can’t have a perfect relationship with our Heavenly Parents. And neither can we have a perfect relationship with ourselves.
We are only self-hating and not self-loving because our parents didn’t love us as we needed to be loved. And so because of this we are also God-hating and not God-loving.
We might believe we love God and feel loved by God, but if there is any imperfection within us, being shown as imperfection in the relationship with have with ourselves and our parents, then that love we have for God will come into question when we do our healing, when it is time to look into the truth of why we have such untrue relationships.
We project onto God all we’ve taken on from our parents. God is our real Parents. We are to heal ourselves of our parents unlovingness, moving into feeling completely loved by our Mother and Father.
Whilst we live in our state of rebellion, sin and evil, that which we’re all inducted into until humanity heals itself of such a negative and unloving condition of mind and will, we can’t be truly loved by our parents just as we can’t truly love them, despite any feelings of love we might have for them. And along with those feelings of love will be feelings of not feeling loved, and these are the ones that we need to address. And all those unloving and unloved feelings will be blocking and so limiting our relationship with God, despite any feelings of love for God or love from God we might feel.
Only by doing our healing, feeling-healing or soul-healing with the Divine Love, can we become true to ourselves, so become wholly self-loving, and then true to God. Become truly God-loving, and feel truly loved by God.
Until we uncover the truth of our wrongness we’ll not know the truth of our relationship with ourselves, our parents and with our Mother and Father.
Lately I've been considering just how much we fear the Mother and Father if we fear our parents. Meaning: We only fear God if we fear our parents. If we loved our parents we'd truly love God. The word ‘truly’ being important, because I don’t mean believing and feeling we love God when the hidden truth is we’re using those so-called love feelings to hide our fear of God. The patterns are laid down concerning our relationship with our soul Mother and Father through our relationship with our physical mother and father. So every dysfunction we have in our relationship with our mum and dad, so we'll have with the Mother and Father. Yet not necessarily specifically, however the fact that we are not truly connecting with our parents, means we can't truly connect with our Heavenly Parents. So even if we feel we strongly love our Mother and Father and feel Their love for us, still, if we've got anything that's wrong in our relationship with our own parents, it will be negatively influencing our relationship with God. However by that I don't mean that we have to perfect our relationship with our parents so as to then have a perfect one with our Mother and Father. But we do have to prefect the relationship within ourselves - become perfect ourselves, so as to have a perfect relationship with Them. So we have to heal all our mother/father circuits and patterns within ourselves, thereby perfecting within ourselves our inner relationship with them, so we can then relate truly to ourself and to Them.
Currently I feel once we leave our parents, that's it with them. We are on our own looking to be perfect by living true to ourselves and true to God. As to whether we might ever have anything to do with our parents again, even if they were to do their healing, I don't know. I imagine possibly for some people they will, and I image possibly for others they will not. But as I said, I have no idea, and it waits to be seen. But the beauty is, we don't have to have anything further to do with them if we don't want to, so we can heal all of ourself without needing their involvement, and so irrespective of whether or not they do their healing.
So every bad part of our unloving relationship with our parents that we uncover the truth of, expressing fully all the associated feelings, is doing the same in our relationship with our Mother and Father. So by the time we finish our healing, being completely set free of our parents - of their negative influences, so we'll be free to take our first real steps of being perfectly true with our Mother and Father. Then I imagine we’ll start to get a real understanding about what it feels like to feel truly loved and to be truly loving.
Is determined by our relationship with our parents.
Any dysfunction and problem in our relationship with our parents affects our relationship with God.
If we grew up not having a perfect relationship with our parents, then we can’t have a perfect relationship with our Heavenly Parents. And neither can we have a perfect relationship with ourselves.
We are only self-hating and not self-loving because our parents didn’t love us as we needed to be loved. And so because of this we are also God-hating and not God-loving.
We might believe we love God and feel loved by God, but if there is any imperfection within us, being shown as imperfection in the relationship with have with ourselves and our parents, then that love we have for God will come into question when we do our healing, when it is time to look into the truth of why we have such untrue relationships.
We project onto God all we’ve taken on from our parents. God is our real Parents. We are to heal ourselves of our parents unlovingness, moving into feeling completely loved by our Mother and Father.
Whilst we live in our state of rebellion, sin and evil, that which we’re all inducted into until humanity heals itself of such a negative and unloving condition of mind and will, we can’t be truly loved by our parents just as we can’t truly love them, despite any feelings of love we might have for them. And along with those feelings of love will be feelings of not feeling loved, and these are the ones that we need to address. And all those unloving and unloved feelings will be blocking and so limiting our relationship with God, despite any feelings of love for God or love from God we might feel.
Only by doing our healing, feeling-healing or soul-healing with the Divine Love, can we become true to ourselves, so become wholly self-loving, and then true to God. Become truly God-loving, and feel truly loved by God.
Until we uncover the truth of our wrongness we’ll not know the truth of our relationship with ourselves, our parents and with our Mother and Father.
Lately I've been considering just how much we fear the Mother and Father if we fear our parents. Meaning: We only fear God if we fear our parents. If we loved our parents we'd truly love God. The word ‘truly’ being important, because I don’t mean believing and feeling we love God when the hidden truth is we’re using those so-called love feelings to hide our fear of God. The patterns are laid down concerning our relationship with our soul Mother and Father through our relationship with our physical mother and father. So every dysfunction we have in our relationship with our mum and dad, so we'll have with the Mother and Father. Yet not necessarily specifically, however the fact that we are not truly connecting with our parents, means we can't truly connect with our Heavenly Parents. So even if we feel we strongly love our Mother and Father and feel Their love for us, still, if we've got anything that's wrong in our relationship with our own parents, it will be negatively influencing our relationship with God. However by that I don't mean that we have to perfect our relationship with our parents so as to then have a perfect one with our Mother and Father. But we do have to prefect the relationship within ourselves - become perfect ourselves, so as to have a perfect relationship with Them. So we have to heal all our mother/father circuits and patterns within ourselves, thereby perfecting within ourselves our inner relationship with them, so we can then relate truly to ourself and to Them.
Currently I feel once we leave our parents, that's it with them. We are on our own looking to be perfect by living true to ourselves and true to God. As to whether we might ever have anything to do with our parents again, even if they were to do their healing, I don't know. I imagine possibly for some people they will, and I image possibly for others they will not. But as I said, I have no idea, and it waits to be seen. But the beauty is, we don't have to have anything further to do with them if we don't want to, so we can heal all of ourself without needing their involvement, and so irrespective of whether or not they do their healing.
So every bad part of our unloving relationship with our parents that we uncover the truth of, expressing fully all the associated feelings, is doing the same in our relationship with our Mother and Father. So by the time we finish our healing, being completely set free of our parents - of their negative influences, so we'll be free to take our first real steps of being perfectly true with our Mother and Father. Then I imagine we’ll start to get a real understanding about what it feels like to feel truly loved and to be truly loving.