The New Way
Divine Love Spirituality is a New Way of living, and is very different from all the existing religions and spiritual systems of the Old Way.
It is based on looking to your feelings to uncover the truth of yourself, rather than trying to find it through your mind. We are to spiritually advance ourselves by expressing ALL our feelings. Using our mind to deny and stop ourselves express many of our feelings, means we're limiting our spiritual progress and preventing ourselves from uncovering the truth we are to see. All of the worlds religions and spiritual systems are concerned with increasing mind control, and are not concerned with helping you to bring out and express all your feelings. |
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The Religion of Feelings
The Religion of Feelings introduces living with and being true to your feelings, it is a major part of Divine Love Spirituality. We can religiously live being true to our feelings. The Religion of Feelings is not a religion as such, it's just meant to illustrate and introduce how committed to our feelings we can be. And that we should be fully committed to them by fully embracing them as we feel them, express the full emotion of them, as we want to know the truth they are to show us about ourselves and our lives. This is a link to The Religion of Feelings website. |
Free Books
Being a whole New Way, there is a lot to read as to how it came to be and what it's all about.
There is no order for the books to be read, only what feels right for you.
If you are interested in messages from spirit, then the Messages from Mary Magdalene and Jesus are very revealing; if you would like an easier introduction, then Sage and the Healing Angels of Light might appeal.
Please feel free to read the pdfs: Free Books
Being a whole New Way, there is a lot to read as to how it came to be and what it's all about.
There is no order for the books to be read, only what feels right for you.
If you are interested in messages from spirit, then the Messages from Mary Magdalene and Jesus are very revealing; if you would like an easier introduction, then Sage and the Healing Angels of Light might appeal.
Please feel free to read the pdfs: Free Books
Spiritual Healing As we find the truth of ourselves through our feelings, we are looking to Spiritually Heal ourselves. This is called doing our Feeling-Healing; or, doing our Soul-Healing when we include the Divine Love. And it's hard to do. However if you do sincerely want to heal yourself, and live true to your feelings, then it's what you will have to do.
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You can’t spiritually grow without doing your Healing
All that is said to help you spiritually grow but is feeling-denying will not help you, it will only at best cause you to advance your mind embroiling you more in your self-deception and self-delusion that you are making good headway.
If you are not looking to your feelings to show you the way into the truth of yourself, then you are not truly spiritually growing, you are not evolving your soul despite what you might feel and think you are doing.
And if you are actively longing for the Divine Love hoping it will magically remove all your sin and error, then you are also mistaken, because for us to completely heal ourselves of our wrongness we need to do our Feeling-Healing or Soul-Healing with the Divine Love.
Understand about living true to your feelings if you are seriously wanting to advance your soul in truth.
Deny your feelings at your own risk!
For more detailed information about why we need to do our Spiritual Healing
Childhood Repression
All that is said to help you spiritually grow but is feeling-denying will not help you, it will only at best cause you to advance your mind embroiling you more in your self-deception and self-delusion that you are making good headway.
If you are not looking to your feelings to show you the way into the truth of yourself, then you are not truly spiritually growing, you are not evolving your soul despite what you might feel and think you are doing.
And if you are actively longing for the Divine Love hoping it will magically remove all your sin and error, then you are also mistaken, because for us to completely heal ourselves of our wrongness we need to do our Feeling-Healing or Soul-Healing with the Divine Love.
Understand about living true to your feelings if you are seriously wanting to advance your soul in truth.
Deny your feelings at your own risk!
For more detailed information about why we need to do our Spiritual Healing
Childhood Repression
Divine Love
We are of Natural love and can become divine by longing directly to God for God's Divine Love. It's a very important part of our spiritual growth. Divine Love Spirituality is made up of two main parts: Doing our Spiritual Healing; and longing for and receiving the Divine Love. Prayer for Divine Love |
Forum
People are now actively living Divine Love Spirituality and doing Spiritual Healing.
You can read on the DLS forum about their healing experiences
as they strive to uncover the truth of themselves and their soul through their feelings.
People are now actively living Divine Love Spirituality and doing Spiritual Healing.
You can read on the DLS forum about their healing experiences
as they strive to uncover the truth of themselves and their soul through their feelings.
Please note: There is a lot of repetition on this website covering the basic DLS principles and truth. This site is my original DLS site being composed of a collection of articles and bits and pieces I've written about the various subjects pertaining to DLS over the years.
Also, this site is entirely my creation. It's entirely my coming up with the idea about God as being our Heavenly Mother and Heavenly Father, as that is how I experience God - They both talk to me at times, and I can go to Them both together or separately. So as always, it's what you experience for yourself that will become your truth.
Mary (Magdalene) and Jesus have supported me in my relationship with God being my Mother and Father. They have supported me all the way along, steadily helping me to expand my emerging and evolving understanding of things, but never taking over or trying to lead me in a certain direction - at least not one that I've been aware of!
James
(Site updated October 2019)
Also, this site is entirely my creation. It's entirely my coming up with the idea about God as being our Heavenly Mother and Heavenly Father, as that is how I experience God - They both talk to me at times, and I can go to Them both together or separately. So as always, it's what you experience for yourself that will become your truth.
Mary (Magdalene) and Jesus have supported me in my relationship with God being my Mother and Father. They have supported me all the way along, steadily helping me to expand my emerging and evolving understanding of things, but never taking over or trying to lead me in a certain direction - at least not one that I've been aware of!
James
(Site updated October 2019)
LOVE: The Religion of Feelings
I am a Personality
I am not God - I am God's child
A child of my Heavenly Mother and Father
I am not God - I am God's child
A child of my Heavenly Mother and Father
The New Way
Feelings First
Feelings First
Image of Australian Magpie courtesy of: BJWOK/FreeDigitalPhotos.net
A Brief introduction to The New Way
There are two distinct ways we can live on Earth and in our spirit lives after we die. The Old Way; and the New Way.
The Old Way we’re all familiar with. We’re inducted into a mind-led mind-dominated way of life, in which we assume power based on beliefs and conditioning resulting from our upbringing. It is living against the truth of ourselves, it’s untrue.
The New Way is to live true and through our feelings – Feelings First, with our mind relinquishing its control as it looks to support our true feelings.
In a spiritual sense, that being one of Truth: the Old Way is largely Truth denying; the New Way, one of ongoing Truth revelation.
With our minds in control we stop our feelings giving rise to the truth we need to live our lives with. So as we’re forced to live shut out from these truth-revealing feelings, we need to rely on our mind and its collection of beliefs and associated behaviour, all of which keeps our mind firmly in control. When we move to wanting our feelings to lead, then we’re allowing ourselves to be free to show us the truths we are to live. We are truth-loving souls that need constant daily truth revelation coming from living true to our feelings to help guide us in life. This being the New Way of living. In our Old Way, we live with our mind denying us this relationship with ourselves, with those deeper feelings, so stopping the natural truth-revealing processes within us. The Old Mind Way forces us to learn how to live life, to work it out using our mind, then to try and live what we’ve learnt, all of which makes things very complicated and difficult. The New Feeling Way relies on truth coming from the full acceptance and expression of all our feelings, truth that helps us feel what is right and wrong and which way we are to go, all of which is living the truth our soul is revealing to us through our feelings. With our mind then helping us understand what our feeling-led life is, it being in support and not taking over.
How do you live it?
Living the New Way begins by wanting to live true to yourself by being true to your feelings. And this is achieved by fully wanting yourself to have all the feelings you have, so most importantly, all your bad ones. To not want to do anything that dismisses, banishes, rejects, seeks to modify, lessen or change your feelings, just to allow them to be as they are – to fully accept them.
And as you acknowledge and accept them, to express them, to allow yourself to feel and express the full emotion of them. And preferably, to express them to someone close to you in your life; and ideally, if your life is accomodating, to be able to freely express them – to freely express yourself, with everyone, and they being free to express themselves and all they feel with you.
And as you are looking to live true to your feelings by fully allowing yourself to have them, then so too do you want to see and so grow in the truth they will show you. The truth will come naturally up in you without having to use your mind to look for it. It’s an organic process: We have experiences that give rise to good and bad feelings; we live those feelings, we express them fully, with their full emotion; and we want them to bring to light the whole truth of them, so we want to know the truth of ourselves. We want to grow spiritually as a person in the truth our soul gives rise to through our feelings. And we understand that our soul is perfect, so if we can live true to it, which is true to ourselves, which is true to our feelings, then it will naturally evolve or grow us in truth as we live expressing all our feelings.
And it’s an easy way to live. It’s how we’ve been created to live. Being forced to live against this natural way of life by denying so many feelings and the truth they’d give rise to, being forced to use our mind instead of our feelings and their truth to determine how our life is to be, is actually a very difficult and hard way to live. It’s living constantly against ourselves, against the flow of Creation, against our own soul and against God.
Changing from the Old Way to the New Way
This involves doing your Spiritual Healing. It’s called your Feeling-Healing or Soul-Healing if it also includes longing for and receiving God’s Divine Love.
Doing your Healing is very difficult, because you setting out to stop living the way you’ve been programmed to live through your childhood. And then to change into living a new way – the right way.
So effectively through your Healing, which is all led by your feelings, you are to move back through all the stages of your childhood seeing the truth of how it came about that you were forced to live against yourself, forced to live untrue to yourself.
Through our feelings and the truth that comes from them, we are to see all how it was for us, how every part of our early life made us feel, and if we felt bad, why we did and who made us feel that way; and if good, why it was good and who made us feel that way, and how the different feelings make us feel.
We are to see whether all our needs were met as we were growing up in the world, all our life, truth and personal feeling needs; if how we were treated made us feel loved, wanted, welcome and important in our lives, and not from an ego mind point of view, but on the pure unaffected feeling level.
Our Healing involves stripping back all our falseness, letting go of all our mind controlling beliefs, working back to see why our unloving, self-rejecting behaviour came to be and how it’s controlled and conditioned our adult lives.
We are to come to understand all that happened to us through our early life, from conception right the way through each phase of our childhood, and how it has made us be the adults we are. And then if being how we are makes us feel good or bad. And why it makes us feel this way.
And it’s to understand, and so expect, that through your Healing you are going to feel very, very, very bad, and very bad a lot of the time, particularly if you’ve got buried within you lots of unexpressed pain and bad feelings from your early life. And as it all needs to come up and out and be reconnected with, it’s to understand that, as bad as it gets, as terribly bad as you might feel, it is all what you’ve already felt, having felt it back during your early life. We can’t feel anything worse than what we’ve already experienced through our childhood. The worst, the most pain, is already over, only we’ve largely forgotten we felt it. Right from the first moment of conception, we can feel extreme pain, we’re not as yet formed enough to register it all, yet it’s still what we’re feeling because of what’s happening to us, that we’re not feeling as loved as we need to feel. And that horrific pain remains stored in our soul, all to be felt, liberated and fully expressed, once we are an adult with the full feeling systems to register and know the truth of it.
It’s to understand that the first part of living the New Way is to come to terms with, by uncovering the whole truth through our feelings, your Old Way, and to know for sure if it was all bad, or if parts were bad, and if, so why they were bad.
We are through our Healing to systematically work back deeper and deeper into ourselves, and into our early life, wanting to see the whole truth of it. We have to want see all the good and bad parts. It’s gets put under the microscope and every part is scrutinised and we have to see all the parts that are wrong, accepting that they are, and coming to understand how unloving treated we were to make them be wrong.
And we’re not to actively try and change ourselves from the Old Way to the New. To do that would involve using our mind, that which we’re trying to give up and no longer do. So our Healing is a long process of acceptance, through our feelings by expressing all our pain, coming to accept this is how I am, this is me in my Old Way, and this is how it makes me feel, and this is what I think and feel about having those feelings.
We have to come to see the whole truth of our Old Way. And to know for ourselves through our feelings whether or not living that way is enjoyable, is good for us, if it makes us feel good – is loving. And if it’s not, then to know why it’s not. Yet not to try and stop being that way, not to try and change ourself, just to accept ourself being untrue, unloving and feeling how bad that makes us feel.
Our Healing ends when we’ve fully uncovered through our feelings the whole truth of our Old Way. We know it all, how it all came about and how being forced to live that way made us feel and how living it makes us feel. We know the whole truth of all the relationships involved: with ourselves, our siblings, our parents, grandparents and other important carers and influences in our early life. We are to know all how we are inside and out, and when we do, then we’ll be ready to change and transform into the New Way.
We’ve been subjected to living the Old Way to understand what it’s like to live against ourselves, Creation and God, to be anti truth and so anti love. So we have to find out, again all through our ongoing feeling expression, the truth of our Old Way.
Then once we’ve uncovered the truth of living untruly, we can stop being that way, with our soul changing us into being true and wholly the New Way.
Then being of the New Way, we keep living true to ourselves by living true to our feelings; the truth of living this good, true and loving way keeps coming up within us, and we move along thoroughly investigating and experiencing the New Way through all the loving relationships in our life.
Living the New Way
As soon as you want to live by being true to your feelings and living the truth they give rise to, you are living the New Way.
Doing your Healing is just part of living the it. It’s the first phase, untangling the web of mind control you’ve been living in your Old Way, coming to see the whole truth of it, and then waiting to be transformed out of it.
So once you’ve decided you want to live by honouring your feelings and longing for the truth of them, everything you do in life will help you to live this new way.
Whilst you’re living the Old Way, everything you do and everything that happens to you will help you go deeper or further into your mind controlling way. As you live your New Way, everything you do and all that happens to you will help you live your New Way.
In the Old Way, you get a headache, it makes you feel bad, you don’t want to feel bad, you hate feeling bad, you hate having a headache, you hate how debilitating it is, stopping you from feeling good and getting on with your life. So you might take a pill to stop it and the resulting bad feelings. And the pill works and you’ve successfully followed your bad-feeling-rejection-behaviour, denying more of yourself by denying more of your own feelings, so advancing in living untrue to your soul, the whole Universe, and to God. And so by taking another step forward in your anti truth and so anti you life, you’ve made some more progress in your Old Way.
In your New Way of life, you get a headache, yet this time understanding the headache is on your side, it’s not some evil force trying to stop you do what you want do. And you understand it’s trying to help you see something about yourself through the bad feelings it’s making you feel. And further; that in fact you are already feeling those bad feelings only you’re not so aware of them. And they are feelings repressed within you from your early life which you’ve kept suppressed for all these years. And so really it’s these hidden bad feelings that give you the headache so you can feel them again, now being able to work with them instead of keeping on denying them. So you try and go with the pain, which means you don’t try to ‘kill’ it, nor do you want to deny all the bad feelings it’s making you feel. You want to feel bad, you want to feel those bad feelings, and as much as you hate feeling them and hate having your headache, you are still grateful to your soul for giving it to you, as now you have another opportunity to embrace those bad feelings, to go the other way than what you did in your Old Way. You don’t take the pill. You allow yourself to suffer the pain. You accept all the bad feelings as you’re feeling them, expressing the full emotion of them, all as you long for and really want to know the truth of what is really causing you to feel so bad – what is causing you to have a bad headache.
And you don’t anything more than keep going accepting, expressing and wanting to uncover the truth of all your bad feelings.
You don’t use your mind to try and look for reasons as to why you have a headache, you understand that you early childhood is the reason, and you want to work with your feelings back into yourself so as to bring to light the truth of the relationships you had with the main people in your childhood, wanting to see what parts were loving, and most importantly, what parts were unloving. And how it came to be that you were not allowed to express your pain back then when you had it, with all the continued tension of having to keep those horrible feelings locked away inside you resulting in you having a bad headache. So you understand that some part of you is suffering greatly, there’s a major disturbance, trauma, within you, and your headache is part of what you need to it. You need something to make you feel bad, so by fully embracing and expressing those bad feelings, they will lead you naturally down into the hidden truth within yourself.
If the pain of your headache gets too bad and you have to take a pill to make it go away, that’s okay, all so long as you keep expressing all the feelings you feel in each moment, and wanting to know the truth they will show you.
And there will be millions of repressed bad feelings to come up and be expressed out of you and their truth of why you’re feeling them, seen. Each experience gives rise to masses of feelings, some of which might be contradictory, yet still you go this way and that expressing them all and longing for the truth they will show you. And that’s living the New Way.
So every experience not matter how small or large, will give rise to feelings, and so we can either deny some or all of those feelings (the Old Way), or we can allow them to be, accept we’re feeling them, want to fully bring them out and express them, as we want to uncover the truth they are to show us about ourselves, our relationships, how our parents and carers treated us as we were growing up, how we are, how we’ve come to be, what life, and our specific life, is all about, and the truth of our relationship with our own soul and with God – (The New Way).
The Old Way: we get sick, we go to the doctor to make the sickness, and really all those awful feelings, go away.
The Old Way: we are emotionally, spiritually or mentally ill, we go to therapist who works with you, possibly even helping you express repressed feelings and liberate some trauma, yet all to keep you feeling better so you can keep going with your Old Way.
The New Way: we get sick, we don’t go to the doctor (unless you have to), trying not to deny all our bad feelings. We allow them to be, to have their say, wanting to bring them out so we can see the truth of the deep underlying real causes of why we’re having them.
The New Way: we are mentally ill, we go to the therapist (or don’t go and keep working on our self doing our Feeling-Healing), understanding that our therapist might help us accept, express and liberate our pain and bad feelings, all with the aim of bringing to light the whole truth of why we’re feeling it. All so we can confront our Old Way, seeing it for what it is, coming to terms with it, with us being made to be as we are, and knowing it’s not about using our mind or any mind technique to try and change ourself, that God through our own soul and our feelings will change us as required, and will completely end our Old Way transforming us into being only of your New Way, once we’ve seen the whole truth of our Old Way, so no longer needing to be it or have any feelings caused by it.
The Old Way: Someone makes you angry – you feel bad. How do you get rid of those bad feelings? Do you hit the person who angered you, you getting some power back and feeling better? Do you try to ‘rise above’ the anger, using your mind by not allowing it to affect you? Do you use some mind controlling anger controlling technique, count to ten, or just rant and rave until the anger dissipates and eases off? And if there was a pill to instantly take your anger away, or any of your bad feelings, would you take it?
The New Way: Someone makes you angry - you feel bad. Good, more bad feelings to work with. You don’t take your anger out on the person or thing that make you feel bad. You understand they have come into your life to give you the bad experience so as to help you feel bad feelings. You accept your anger, you allow yourself to feel as raging mad as you feel, and you express that rage the best you can to a willing partner or friend who is prepared to and wants to listen to it all, all the worst of it, and is happy and wants you to go on and on and on until you’ve vented and emoted it all. Or you try and talk it out to God, trying to bring out the emotion of the feelings rather than just keep it all internalised. You do the best you can with what you can, sometimes the situation is not conducive to expressing outwardly all your rage, so you have wait until later to do it, and at least just allow yourself to keep feeling how pissed off and angry you feel. And you want to know the truth of this anger: how does it relate to you on deeper levels, what happened to you during your early life that made you feel this same amount of anger? And again you don’t try to work it out using your mind, you just keep expressing your anger and longing for the deeper truth of it. And eventually the anger will ease off and stop naturally when you’ve emoted and expressed it all out of you, and the truth will come to you, and then you’ll have reconnected back with an early time that made you angry when you were young. You might remember a specific incident, or it might help you know the overall truth of how it was with your parents – that they made you feel so angry. It might help you to see that it was your mother, your father, or both of them, and how unlovingly they treated you that made you feel so angry, and all why it just did and still does make you feel those same angry feelings.
So life makes us feel certain feelings. And we either deny them (the Old Way) or fully embrace them (The New Way).
Up until now, the New Way wasn’t available to be lived, the truth wasn’t made available as to how we can and why we should. But slowly the truth of the New Way has been coming to light, and now it can be fully lived.
And in the end, by living the New Way you will end up only feeling good, and very good. Whereas by persisting with the Old Way, you’ll endlessly keep repeating the same unloving feeling and self-rejecting patterns, all of which will one day lead you to feeling not so good, bad, and very bad.
To live the New Way is to live true to your soul, God, and is the highest and truest way you can live. Living the Old Way, is living against your soul, God, and is an untrue way to live.
The New Way; the Feelings Way.
There are two distinct ways we can live on Earth and in our spirit lives after we die. The Old Way; and the New Way.
The Old Way we’re all familiar with. We’re inducted into a mind-led mind-dominated way of life, in which we assume power based on beliefs and conditioning resulting from our upbringing. It is living against the truth of ourselves, it’s untrue.
The New Way is to live true and through our feelings – Feelings First, with our mind relinquishing its control as it looks to support our true feelings.
In a spiritual sense, that being one of Truth: the Old Way is largely Truth denying; the New Way, one of ongoing Truth revelation.
With our minds in control we stop our feelings giving rise to the truth we need to live our lives with. So as we’re forced to live shut out from these truth-revealing feelings, we need to rely on our mind and its collection of beliefs and associated behaviour, all of which keeps our mind firmly in control. When we move to wanting our feelings to lead, then we’re allowing ourselves to be free to show us the truths we are to live. We are truth-loving souls that need constant daily truth revelation coming from living true to our feelings to help guide us in life. This being the New Way of living. In our Old Way, we live with our mind denying us this relationship with ourselves, with those deeper feelings, so stopping the natural truth-revealing processes within us. The Old Mind Way forces us to learn how to live life, to work it out using our mind, then to try and live what we’ve learnt, all of which makes things very complicated and difficult. The New Feeling Way relies on truth coming from the full acceptance and expression of all our feelings, truth that helps us feel what is right and wrong and which way we are to go, all of which is living the truth our soul is revealing to us through our feelings. With our mind then helping us understand what our feeling-led life is, it being in support and not taking over.
How do you live it?
Living the New Way begins by wanting to live true to yourself by being true to your feelings. And this is achieved by fully wanting yourself to have all the feelings you have, so most importantly, all your bad ones. To not want to do anything that dismisses, banishes, rejects, seeks to modify, lessen or change your feelings, just to allow them to be as they are – to fully accept them.
And as you acknowledge and accept them, to express them, to allow yourself to feel and express the full emotion of them. And preferably, to express them to someone close to you in your life; and ideally, if your life is accomodating, to be able to freely express them – to freely express yourself, with everyone, and they being free to express themselves and all they feel with you.
And as you are looking to live true to your feelings by fully allowing yourself to have them, then so too do you want to see and so grow in the truth they will show you. The truth will come naturally up in you without having to use your mind to look for it. It’s an organic process: We have experiences that give rise to good and bad feelings; we live those feelings, we express them fully, with their full emotion; and we want them to bring to light the whole truth of them, so we want to know the truth of ourselves. We want to grow spiritually as a person in the truth our soul gives rise to through our feelings. And we understand that our soul is perfect, so if we can live true to it, which is true to ourselves, which is true to our feelings, then it will naturally evolve or grow us in truth as we live expressing all our feelings.
And it’s an easy way to live. It’s how we’ve been created to live. Being forced to live against this natural way of life by denying so many feelings and the truth they’d give rise to, being forced to use our mind instead of our feelings and their truth to determine how our life is to be, is actually a very difficult and hard way to live. It’s living constantly against ourselves, against the flow of Creation, against our own soul and against God.
Changing from the Old Way to the New Way
This involves doing your Spiritual Healing. It’s called your Feeling-Healing or Soul-Healing if it also includes longing for and receiving God’s Divine Love.
Doing your Healing is very difficult, because you setting out to stop living the way you’ve been programmed to live through your childhood. And then to change into living a new way – the right way.
So effectively through your Healing, which is all led by your feelings, you are to move back through all the stages of your childhood seeing the truth of how it came about that you were forced to live against yourself, forced to live untrue to yourself.
Through our feelings and the truth that comes from them, we are to see all how it was for us, how every part of our early life made us feel, and if we felt bad, why we did and who made us feel that way; and if good, why it was good and who made us feel that way, and how the different feelings make us feel.
We are to see whether all our needs were met as we were growing up in the world, all our life, truth and personal feeling needs; if how we were treated made us feel loved, wanted, welcome and important in our lives, and not from an ego mind point of view, but on the pure unaffected feeling level.
Our Healing involves stripping back all our falseness, letting go of all our mind controlling beliefs, working back to see why our unloving, self-rejecting behaviour came to be and how it’s controlled and conditioned our adult lives.
We are to come to understand all that happened to us through our early life, from conception right the way through each phase of our childhood, and how it has made us be the adults we are. And then if being how we are makes us feel good or bad. And why it makes us feel this way.
And it’s to understand, and so expect, that through your Healing you are going to feel very, very, very bad, and very bad a lot of the time, particularly if you’ve got buried within you lots of unexpressed pain and bad feelings from your early life. And as it all needs to come up and out and be reconnected with, it’s to understand that, as bad as it gets, as terribly bad as you might feel, it is all what you’ve already felt, having felt it back during your early life. We can’t feel anything worse than what we’ve already experienced through our childhood. The worst, the most pain, is already over, only we’ve largely forgotten we felt it. Right from the first moment of conception, we can feel extreme pain, we’re not as yet formed enough to register it all, yet it’s still what we’re feeling because of what’s happening to us, that we’re not feeling as loved as we need to feel. And that horrific pain remains stored in our soul, all to be felt, liberated and fully expressed, once we are an adult with the full feeling systems to register and know the truth of it.
It’s to understand that the first part of living the New Way is to come to terms with, by uncovering the whole truth through our feelings, your Old Way, and to know for sure if it was all bad, or if parts were bad, and if, so why they were bad.
We are through our Healing to systematically work back deeper and deeper into ourselves, and into our early life, wanting to see the whole truth of it. We have to want see all the good and bad parts. It’s gets put under the microscope and every part is scrutinised and we have to see all the parts that are wrong, accepting that they are, and coming to understand how unloving treated we were to make them be wrong.
And we’re not to actively try and change ourselves from the Old Way to the New. To do that would involve using our mind, that which we’re trying to give up and no longer do. So our Healing is a long process of acceptance, through our feelings by expressing all our pain, coming to accept this is how I am, this is me in my Old Way, and this is how it makes me feel, and this is what I think and feel about having those feelings.
We have to come to see the whole truth of our Old Way. And to know for ourselves through our feelings whether or not living that way is enjoyable, is good for us, if it makes us feel good – is loving. And if it’s not, then to know why it’s not. Yet not to try and stop being that way, not to try and change ourself, just to accept ourself being untrue, unloving and feeling how bad that makes us feel.
Our Healing ends when we’ve fully uncovered through our feelings the whole truth of our Old Way. We know it all, how it all came about and how being forced to live that way made us feel and how living it makes us feel. We know the whole truth of all the relationships involved: with ourselves, our siblings, our parents, grandparents and other important carers and influences in our early life. We are to know all how we are inside and out, and when we do, then we’ll be ready to change and transform into the New Way.
We’ve been subjected to living the Old Way to understand what it’s like to live against ourselves, Creation and God, to be anti truth and so anti love. So we have to find out, again all through our ongoing feeling expression, the truth of our Old Way.
Then once we’ve uncovered the truth of living untruly, we can stop being that way, with our soul changing us into being true and wholly the New Way.
Then being of the New Way, we keep living true to ourselves by living true to our feelings; the truth of living this good, true and loving way keeps coming up within us, and we move along thoroughly investigating and experiencing the New Way through all the loving relationships in our life.
Living the New Way
As soon as you want to live by being true to your feelings and living the truth they give rise to, you are living the New Way.
Doing your Healing is just part of living the it. It’s the first phase, untangling the web of mind control you’ve been living in your Old Way, coming to see the whole truth of it, and then waiting to be transformed out of it.
So once you’ve decided you want to live by honouring your feelings and longing for the truth of them, everything you do in life will help you to live this new way.
Whilst you’re living the Old Way, everything you do and everything that happens to you will help you go deeper or further into your mind controlling way. As you live your New Way, everything you do and all that happens to you will help you live your New Way.
In the Old Way, you get a headache, it makes you feel bad, you don’t want to feel bad, you hate feeling bad, you hate having a headache, you hate how debilitating it is, stopping you from feeling good and getting on with your life. So you might take a pill to stop it and the resulting bad feelings. And the pill works and you’ve successfully followed your bad-feeling-rejection-behaviour, denying more of yourself by denying more of your own feelings, so advancing in living untrue to your soul, the whole Universe, and to God. And so by taking another step forward in your anti truth and so anti you life, you’ve made some more progress in your Old Way.
In your New Way of life, you get a headache, yet this time understanding the headache is on your side, it’s not some evil force trying to stop you do what you want do. And you understand it’s trying to help you see something about yourself through the bad feelings it’s making you feel. And further; that in fact you are already feeling those bad feelings only you’re not so aware of them. And they are feelings repressed within you from your early life which you’ve kept suppressed for all these years. And so really it’s these hidden bad feelings that give you the headache so you can feel them again, now being able to work with them instead of keeping on denying them. So you try and go with the pain, which means you don’t try to ‘kill’ it, nor do you want to deny all the bad feelings it’s making you feel. You want to feel bad, you want to feel those bad feelings, and as much as you hate feeling them and hate having your headache, you are still grateful to your soul for giving it to you, as now you have another opportunity to embrace those bad feelings, to go the other way than what you did in your Old Way. You don’t take the pill. You allow yourself to suffer the pain. You accept all the bad feelings as you’re feeling them, expressing the full emotion of them, all as you long for and really want to know the truth of what is really causing you to feel so bad – what is causing you to have a bad headache.
And you don’t anything more than keep going accepting, expressing and wanting to uncover the truth of all your bad feelings.
You don’t use your mind to try and look for reasons as to why you have a headache, you understand that you early childhood is the reason, and you want to work with your feelings back into yourself so as to bring to light the truth of the relationships you had with the main people in your childhood, wanting to see what parts were loving, and most importantly, what parts were unloving. And how it came to be that you were not allowed to express your pain back then when you had it, with all the continued tension of having to keep those horrible feelings locked away inside you resulting in you having a bad headache. So you understand that some part of you is suffering greatly, there’s a major disturbance, trauma, within you, and your headache is part of what you need to it. You need something to make you feel bad, so by fully embracing and expressing those bad feelings, they will lead you naturally down into the hidden truth within yourself.
If the pain of your headache gets too bad and you have to take a pill to make it go away, that’s okay, all so long as you keep expressing all the feelings you feel in each moment, and wanting to know the truth they will show you.
And there will be millions of repressed bad feelings to come up and be expressed out of you and their truth of why you’re feeling them, seen. Each experience gives rise to masses of feelings, some of which might be contradictory, yet still you go this way and that expressing them all and longing for the truth they will show you. And that’s living the New Way.
So every experience not matter how small or large, will give rise to feelings, and so we can either deny some or all of those feelings (the Old Way), or we can allow them to be, accept we’re feeling them, want to fully bring them out and express them, as we want to uncover the truth they are to show us about ourselves, our relationships, how our parents and carers treated us as we were growing up, how we are, how we’ve come to be, what life, and our specific life, is all about, and the truth of our relationship with our own soul and with God – (The New Way).
The Old Way: we get sick, we go to the doctor to make the sickness, and really all those awful feelings, go away.
The Old Way: we are emotionally, spiritually or mentally ill, we go to therapist who works with you, possibly even helping you express repressed feelings and liberate some trauma, yet all to keep you feeling better so you can keep going with your Old Way.
The New Way: we get sick, we don’t go to the doctor (unless you have to), trying not to deny all our bad feelings. We allow them to be, to have their say, wanting to bring them out so we can see the truth of the deep underlying real causes of why we’re having them.
The New Way: we are mentally ill, we go to the therapist (or don’t go and keep working on our self doing our Feeling-Healing), understanding that our therapist might help us accept, express and liberate our pain and bad feelings, all with the aim of bringing to light the whole truth of why we’re feeling it. All so we can confront our Old Way, seeing it for what it is, coming to terms with it, with us being made to be as we are, and knowing it’s not about using our mind or any mind technique to try and change ourself, that God through our own soul and our feelings will change us as required, and will completely end our Old Way transforming us into being only of your New Way, once we’ve seen the whole truth of our Old Way, so no longer needing to be it or have any feelings caused by it.
The Old Way: Someone makes you angry – you feel bad. How do you get rid of those bad feelings? Do you hit the person who angered you, you getting some power back and feeling better? Do you try to ‘rise above’ the anger, using your mind by not allowing it to affect you? Do you use some mind controlling anger controlling technique, count to ten, or just rant and rave until the anger dissipates and eases off? And if there was a pill to instantly take your anger away, or any of your bad feelings, would you take it?
The New Way: Someone makes you angry - you feel bad. Good, more bad feelings to work with. You don’t take your anger out on the person or thing that make you feel bad. You understand they have come into your life to give you the bad experience so as to help you feel bad feelings. You accept your anger, you allow yourself to feel as raging mad as you feel, and you express that rage the best you can to a willing partner or friend who is prepared to and wants to listen to it all, all the worst of it, and is happy and wants you to go on and on and on until you’ve vented and emoted it all. Or you try and talk it out to God, trying to bring out the emotion of the feelings rather than just keep it all internalised. You do the best you can with what you can, sometimes the situation is not conducive to expressing outwardly all your rage, so you have wait until later to do it, and at least just allow yourself to keep feeling how pissed off and angry you feel. And you want to know the truth of this anger: how does it relate to you on deeper levels, what happened to you during your early life that made you feel this same amount of anger? And again you don’t try to work it out using your mind, you just keep expressing your anger and longing for the deeper truth of it. And eventually the anger will ease off and stop naturally when you’ve emoted and expressed it all out of you, and the truth will come to you, and then you’ll have reconnected back with an early time that made you angry when you were young. You might remember a specific incident, or it might help you know the overall truth of how it was with your parents – that they made you feel so angry. It might help you to see that it was your mother, your father, or both of them, and how unlovingly they treated you that made you feel so angry, and all why it just did and still does make you feel those same angry feelings.
So life makes us feel certain feelings. And we either deny them (the Old Way) or fully embrace them (The New Way).
Up until now, the New Way wasn’t available to be lived, the truth wasn’t made available as to how we can and why we should. But slowly the truth of the New Way has been coming to light, and now it can be fully lived.
And in the end, by living the New Way you will end up only feeling good, and very good. Whereas by persisting with the Old Way, you’ll endlessly keep repeating the same unloving feeling and self-rejecting patterns, all of which will one day lead you to feeling not so good, bad, and very bad.
To live the New Way is to live true to your soul, God, and is the highest and truest way you can live. Living the Old Way, is living against your soul, God, and is an untrue way to live.
The New Way; the Feelings Way.